Gospel singer gospel Solomon Mkubwa shared marital advice to women as he candidly talked about his own marriage.
Mkubwa dished out relationship advice to the ladies as he addressed the rise in gender-based conflicts in marriages and relationships.
The gospel singer shared three attributes about men that women need to pay attention to in a bid to avoid conflicts in their relationships.
“You might not agree with me but women need to know men are born of three attributes. The first is glory, all men are born with the sense of a feeling they are kings so that means when I speak I need to be heard and sometimes not questioned or challenged. When you do, then we might have a problem,” Mkubwa explained.
According to Mkubwa, the second attribute that women need to know about men is childishness.
He explained that before his wife and him were blessed with a child their love flourished but once a baby came everything changed as the attention went to the child.
Mkubwa noted that he felt neglected and was fighting with the child for his wife’s attention.
“Men are also born with some element of childishness, I have learnt this in marriage. When I married my wife, I would come home she would hug me, kiss me and we do our thing. But when we had our children, our love kind of faded a little because most of it now went to the child.”
Adding, “This is why if you don’t know God, most men start cheating. In a man’s world, he expects the same way you treat the child, he should be treated the same. He wants the same affection as that given to the child and in most cases that doesn’t happen thus most men will struggle to understand and there will be a problem because now you are competing with your child for the lady’s attention.”
The last element Solomon Mkubwa pointed out is cruelty. He explained that each man is born with some degree of cruelty and when pushed to the wall, those attributes come into play resulting in a conflict.
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