Kenyans are wondering, whoās this lady in the viral photo of Edwin Chiloba and Jackton Odhiambo?
In the photos shared by the main suspect in the murder of model and LGBTQ activist Edwin Chiloba, Jackton describes her as family.
It has also emerged that Edwin Chiloba and Jackton lived as husband and wife for close to one year in Eldoret.
A BiggestKaka analysis of the connection shows that Jackton and the unnamed woman have a child together, whose name is Garvey Armani.
And even so, there still remains what ifs in all the confusion, trying to figure out; what kind of love relationship was this.
In the post by Jackton, he shares all these photos.
At one given time, Jackton captions above photos and more, saying:
āThe parts of me that arenāt āiā
āKnowing who I am is grounding; it gives me a sense of trajectory.
But when we assign words and meanings to what we know we like and value and want, we create attachments. We then strive to keep things within the parameters of which weāve already accepted. Out of that, we create failure. We create suffering over self.
We begin to believe that a static idea can represent a dynamic, evolving being. The ways we donāt live up to the ideas in our minds become our greatest grievances. Sometimes we get attached to the structures because we donāt like the contents.
Weāre more invested in how weāre perceived than who we are, in the idea of what the title means than the day-to-day work of the job, in the ādo you promise to love me forever?ā than the actual day-to-day loving. This is to say: Weāre more comforted by ideas of what things are as opposed to what they really are. We like to think of ourselves as bodies because that doesnāt leave us with the open-ended āwhat else.ā
āBut what if the āwhat elseā isnāt the end-thought, but the beginning? What if awareness of it frees us of so many things, quells so many thoughts, balms so many aches? What if healing yourself is not fixing an attitude, not changing an opinion, not altering an aesthetic, but shifting a presence, an awareness, an energy?
In this case, fixing the parts does not heal the whole. The only thing that changes you and your life is the awareness of the parts that are not āI.ā
It is the whole, it is where you end up, it is where you began, it is the one thing, the only thing, that shifts, and raises, and facilitates the spark of awareness that made you question the elements of its vessel. Iām not really asking you to consider the theories. Iām just asking whether or not you feel it.ā
āFrom my thoughts and feelings at 4:00am . I title itā¦#FAMILYā
What ifs that arise in this relationship
If Jackton Odhiambo is the real father, was the lady aware he was an and in a relationship with the late Edwin when they sired and welcome their child?
If Jackton Odhiambo was dating both, does it mean heās bisexual and Edwin was gay?
Since the two seemed comfortable around her, could it be that they used her as a surrogate to have a child since they already owned a Chiwawa named Littymous whom they viewed as their child? Maybe possibly pay her for the same?
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It is also ALLEGED that the lady was Chilobaās wife and the kid was allegedly fathered by Jackton Odhiambo.
NOTE here (the wife belongs to Chiloba), who in their queer world is the wife to Odhiambo.
Itās believed that this love was well arranged and agreed upon. Odhiambo is the husband of Chiloba, and the lady is the wife of Chiloba but Odhiambo will father the children since Chiloba can not get pregnant. Itās confusing I know but bear with me, please.
ALLEGEDLY, Chilobaās āwhite parentsā who adopted him were aware of the arrangement and they even posed for a photo with the couple, on several occasions.
The allegations and twists keep coming, as the whole world tries to figure out; what kind of love this was.
This case only brings out more confusion and questions than answers.
According to the Uasin Gishu DCI Office, three more individuals have been apprehended in connection with the killing of famed fashion icon, model, and Queer activist Edwin Kiprotich Kiptoo, also identified as Edwin Chiloba.
Police are saying that Jackton confessed to killing Chiloba because of cheating.
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