Kenyan men and women are currently abstaining from marriage and most of them have a strong reason behind their reasoning.
In recent years, there has been a surge in the number of Kenyan celebrities who have become parents without being married, thus the terms baby mamas and baby daddies.
This phenomenon is dubbed the “Baby Mama and Baby Daddy” epidemic that’s currently eating up our society today.
While some people deem this as a positive trend, others believe it is setting a bad example for young people growing up.
In this article, I will explore the names of Kenyan celebrities in this hold-up who are somewhat trying to subtly make it cool, plus the cons of this epidemic.
The term “Baby Mama and Baby Daddy” is used in Kenya and almost everywhere else to refer to a couple who have children out of wedlock.
Exploring the celebrities who are ensnared in this epidemic, most of which are often seen as role models for young people, their relationships are considered to be important aspects of their lives even in the eyes of society.
It, therefore, becomes, a hard task for them when they end the relationship.
It becomes extremely hard to balance all the negative comments, accusations, drama, cases, and the what-have-yous that come with being in such an arrangement especially if the parties involved are in a co-parenting arrangement and the general public knows all about it.
While this type of relationship is not necessarily a bad thing, it can often lead to problems down the road, especially for the kids involved. For example, if the couple decides to break up, they may find it difficult to co-parent their children. Additionally, if one or both of the parents is not financially responsible and/or stable, the children may suffer as a result.
When one of the partners entangles with some other new people and moves on, the other party might not have moved on and thus become problematic intentionally and out of greed, total pettiness and sheer jealousy decide to neglect the children. We have all seen this happen, even in our own families, as an example.
Ultimately, while “Baby Mama and Baby Daddy” relationships are not inherently detrimental, they often create challenges for those involved. It is important for couples in this situation to be aware of the potential pitfalls and take steps to avoid them.
Children may find it difficult to adapt to their parents’ varied lives. As a result, they prefer to choose their favorite parents based on how well they fit into each parent’s life and the time spent together to create the much-needed bond.
Kids may also have to deal with parent disagreements with some of them being out there for them to see even if that wasn’t intended. This can be tough for them to handle.
Arguments and splits over important life choices may frequently force children to make decisions that may in turn traumatize them in their growing up and into adulthood.
Things change, and people change but we can always consistently hope for better days ahead, instead of blaming and accusing each other as partners or spouses.
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Without further ado, the list right below is some of the famous Kenyans who are in “Baby mama and Baby daddy” situation-ships or should we say entanglement.
Producer J Blessing, radio queen Mwende Macharia
Well, J Blessing is blessed to have a kid with Mwende Macharia, Chantelle, and Avril as alleged widely in the media.
There’s no secret that J. Blessings and his baby mamas are super happy with their current arrangements because we haven’t had any public spat from either of them.
Mwende Macharia recently brought forth a bundle of joy to the world, she’s never been vocal about the father of her child, J. Blessing was that you?
Kevin Kioko alias Bahati Kenya and Yvette Obura
The two former lovebirds are blessed with a beautiful daughter called Mueni.
Singer Bahati apologized to his baby’s mother Yvette Obura for keeping his daughter Mueni hidden from the world for nearly two years.
5 years ago, in a low-key ceremony held in Nairobi, gospel singer Bahati Kenya married Diana Marua, the mother of his other children.
Jacque Maribe and Eric Omondi
In what would come out as a shocker after years of being private, the world got to know that Jacque Maribe and Comedian Eric Omondi had a son, I mean how did this piece of information just go by from tabloids and bloggers for years? Now, this was news when it was corroborated by both of them on social media.
Both media personalities are co-parenting, and none of them is married, just yet.
Rapper King Kaka and singer Chemutai Sage
King Kaka and Sage have a child together, she’s the eldest daughter of the rapper; although King Kaka is now married to Nana Owiti.
The former flame is co-parenting and they’re cordial with each other, there hasn’t been any wahala from either of them for years.
Langata MP Phelix Odiwuor alias Jalango and media personality Cheptoek Boyo
Jalang’o and Cheptoek Boyo have a daughter and are on good terms and co-parenting. The newly elected MP is married to Amina Chao.
Singer Diamond Platnumz and Tanasha Donna
In what would become, one of the most sought-after relationships on Kenyan social media platforms, these two gave us that steaming hot Bonnie and Clyde vibe, that almost led to marriage but at least it yielded a few hits songs together for the fans who will forever be grateful for their pieces together.
The two lovers in a short period ended their union. Neither of them is married yet, but together they have a son.
Kiss FM host Oga Obinna and his Baby Mamas
Oga Obinna has three baby mamas and four children, phew! mans has really been busy o!
The radio host separated from his wife, Mama Adalola for many years.
It’s alleged that their marriage broke down when he started dating an older woman who was paying for the lavish lifestyle he liked to showcase on social media.
The two have been making headlines just recently.
Sol Generation singer, Bensoul and Tiffany Muikamba
The extremely talented singer, instrumentalist, and songwriter has a daughter together with Tiffany Muikamba.
The two are not co-parenting due to reasons unknown to us but Tiffany said she didn’t want to share her baby with anyone.
Akothee and her Baby Daddies
Akothee has been with black and white men alike. She’s proud and public about her baby daddies and their kids, no need to dig any further.
Her relationship information is all over the internet, all you have to do to be on the latest grapevine about her is simply Google her name, that’s it.
Rapper Juliani and actress Brenda Wairimu
Although no one knows whether the two got married at some point, these two were once the perfect couple that most of us used to look up to as a source of inspiration, how things change will make you wonder about a lot of things in life, but si ni life.
One morning after months of speculation, they ended their 4-plus years of relationship.
Both have since moved on but they have an adorable daughter together.
Lilian Nganga, who was formerly with former Machakos Governor, Alfred Mutua as his wife and his First Lady, is now married to the rapper.
Mulamwah and Carrol Sonnie
Kendrick and Muthoni have a daughter.
After breaking up, they would sun-dry their issues online for social media to devour and boy o boy! was it messy!
Thee Pluto and Felicity Shiru
These two young lovebirds recently welcomed a daughter together whom they decided to name Zoey Pluto.
They are not yet married, plans in place possibly? We will never know! We just have to wait and hope that their union is sanitized and made official.
Who missed out on the list?
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