Justina Syokau crying during interview with Obinna. Photo/Screengrab.

Justina Syokau painfully explains how her ex-husband made her fear men for over 10 years

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“Niligongwa miti kutoka saa nne mbaka saa kumi na mbili,” Justina Syokau vividly remembered how her ex-husband Johnstone Vundi Musyoka, the brother to Wiper leader Kalonzo Musyoka, did to her.

Justina Syokau got married to Vundi in 2012 and divorced her after just one year in 2013 because of his infidelity which started while they were still dating.

Vundi and Justina were blessed with one child in the course of their short-lived marriage.

Speaking during an interview with Oga Obinna on his YouTube channel, Justina said her ex-husband was a serial womanizer and that she used to find Viagra pills in his clothes.

Justina recalled that the first time she witnessed the Viagra being used on her was when her mother had just died.

The mother of one said that at the time she had separated from Vundi but they were to go together to attend the burial of her mom.

However, Vundi failed to show up at their rendezvous and she opted to go to his home to check on him.

On reaching there, Justina said Vundi instructed her to warm water for him so that he could take a bath before they set off for the funeral.

However, Justina didn’t know that while she was warming water Vundi was popping Viagra pills and no sooner had the sex enhancing drugs took effect than he pounced on her and  slept with her for at least 7 hours nonstop.

The controversial gospel singer noted that Vundi forced her into the sex marathon and showed no mercy at all even when she pleaded with him to stop because she was tired.

“Pahali nliona viagra sasa inafanya kazi. Sasa ile siku mamangu si amekufa Wednesday sasa nimemgonja kwa stage yenye aliniambia hafiki. Nkaenda kwa nyumba niangalie kama ako kwa nyumba. Kufika kwa nyumba nkakuta anapiga suti pasi.

“Akaniambia enda dani uniwekee maji, si I was the wife I know the house. So nkaingia nimuwekee maji ya kuoga kwa karai, kwanza niiweke moto ili niiweke kwa jag.

“Sasa nkiweka kwa karai mtu ako sekete mbaya. Niligongwa miti kutoka I think it was saa nne ama saa tano mbaka saa kumi, saa kumi na mbili hapo. This guy ati ananiambia ati I miss my wife, namuambia nimechoka.
Unajua nlikua navaanga nguo refu sana ya kanisa, zile kubwa sana za upastor. Alipita nayo,” Justina Syokau narrated.

The mother of one further exuded confidence that her ex-husband used Viagra when he ploughed her for nearly a half a day because he used to have erectile dysfunction, there was no way his willie could have hardened without the drug.

Justina noted that Vundi never rose to occasion without being jump started but on that fateful day his manhood was hard like a rock and he was strong like a stallion.

“I think ni viagra because the time we were married sijawai ona hio kitu imesimama hivyo, sijawai ona ikiwa kubwa hivyo. Kusema ukweli, I have lived with this man in the same house sijai ona akiwa horny hivyo. If I needed him to be horny ningemunyonya to be horny. Nashindia kuamsha haiamuki,” she said.

Justina Syokau added that Vundi went missing after forcing himself on her for hours. She said that he attended her mother’s burial but avoided her like problems.

“The day alifanya hio kitendo alienda missing, hakuenda ata nyumbani kwetu alienda tu mazishi. Na ata kwa mazishi hakutaka ata kuongea na mimi, alikuja tu appearance kwa mazishi,” Justina said.

She observed that Vundi ruthlessly chewed her like a hungry hyena because it was goodbye sex for him as he never wanted to see her again ever.

“Alinipea ya goodbye, na Wakamba wanapenda hivyo naskianga Wakamba wanakutesa nayo,” she added.

The mother of one boy noted that when Vundi pulled a Kipchoge on her in bed she still had operation wounds from the C-Section she went through.

“Ukumbuke nimetoka kuzaa na two months na nko na operation na mtu amekulima all those hours,” she said.

Justina also stated that she felt that her ex-husband had his way with her because she did not consent to the marathon sex.

“I usually feel alinira*e. Hio 7 hours alinikula nafilingi alinira*e because I was not willing to sleep with him.
Nilimwambia mimi staki. Tulikua tunaenda nyumbani mamangu amekufa. I am mourning my mother, my son is in the hospital in ICU,” she remarked.

The mother of one added that the 7-hour nonstop sex Vundi took her through made her to fear men to the extend that she has been on celibacy for over 10 years from the time the ordeal happened.

Reflecting on her troubled marriage with Vundi, Justina Syokau also lamented that her ex-husband philandering ways made her resort to watching adult movies thinking that maybe he was cheating on her because she was not good enough in bed.

She revealed that she got married to Vundi when she was still a virgin and thus was green in matters intercourse but sharpened her skills with time just to please her ex-husband in vain.

“I don’t know if there are women who get that frustration where you have this person in the house unaona vile anatembea uko nje onaona wacha niweke gear juu.

“Mimi porno ya kwanza kuwatch nimewatch nikiwa married, kwa nini? I watched to see maybe sijui style ju nimeokoka hii miaka yote. Maybe sijui style ya kumpea.

“Niliambiwa na watu maybe ju hujui kumpatia vizuri ndo sababu anatembea. Nikaenda nkaambiwa videos ndo hizi angalia hapa. Nkakuta nko sawa kuliko ata hao, naitaka ata kuliko hao wako kwa hio video ya porno and then it was not even sweet, the porno one you see ata hawako smirt, the way they are looking is not even interesting.

“So I am just like ni nini anataka niongeze. When you are married and you see infidelity you usually feel maybe humpei vizuri unajaribu kuimprove style. Mimi ile style sijui ni ile imekuja jana,” Justina said.

The mother of one also narrated how Vundi threatened to kill her when they separated before they officially got divorced.

“That time mamangu akikuja kukufa we were having court case because of the baby and also anithreaten kuniua.This guy could call me ananiambie ujue nko na bunduki I will kill you.

“There is nothing bad like knowing you are married by a soldier, na ni mkubwa ako na wadogo wake wanamutikanga sir. And he is from a powerful family. Wewe ni nzi kwake, wewe ni siafu kwake. Wewe akitaka kukuua ni sahii.

“Huyu ni mtu anajua kusearch mtu, ni mtu anafanya prison huyo ni mtu mwenye anajua kusearch mfungwa ako wapi, amejificha wapi, wako na all the gadgets. So wakati anashindia kunithreaten kuniua mi nilimwambia nishakufa kitambo kuja tu uniue nimesimama Kariobangi South,” she said.

Justina Syokau noted that Wiper leader Stephen Kalonzo Musyoka knew what his brother was doing to her but only called her for mediation after she dragged Vundi to court.

“I remember the first time we went to court Kalonzo called me it was on a Sunday. Kalonzo called me after us going on Friday to court for the first mention.

“Kalonzo calls me, he is brother to Kalonzo. Kalonzo called me and he told me ‘kuja Karen tusolve hii mambo’. Nitoe kesi kotini nipeleke Karen tukasolve while this is his brother he has been knowning that nimekua nikiteswa kwa ndoa.

“I love Kalonzo so much, I campaigned for him, I talk about him and I make sure even his campaignrs the Wiper members mi nawakufia but now when it comes to this other side tumefika kotini ulijua nimefukuzwa hujawai niita,” she said.

Justina divulged that she refused to go to Kalonzo’s home for mediation because it was a matter of too little too late and that she also didn’t feel safe because Vundi was always carrying a gun and had threatened to shoot her.

“So it was so hard for me to go to Kalonzo’s home in Karen. How will I go, how secure I am while ata tukienda mediation this guy anakuja na pistol.

“Sikuenda kwa Kalonzo because one this is his brother you know and this brother is coming kwa mediation na pistol na amekua akinithreaten kwa ndoa na Kalonzo amekua akijua, he knows. So angesolve hio maneno before ifike kotini,” she said.

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