Amber Ray and Obinna. Photos/Courtesy

Amber Ray explains why she can never date Obinna

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Obinna has had the longest crush on Amber Ray and when the socialite broke up with Kennedy Rapudo he was optimistic he stood a chance to finally win her love.

Amber Ray announced she had parted ways with Rapudo in a post on social media on October 13, 2023. The socialite said she had endured physical abuse and couldn’t stand it anymore.

“I have always been a champion for love and marriage, knowing too well the joys of having kids that look up to you, cherish and adore you, because all you can do is give them what you never had, plus much more. But in the absence of a loving environment, the care and compassion that children need to develop and grow in becomes non existent. The love and unity that a marriage should stand on becomes blurred, and eventually it leaves you drained. I have been in that environment for a while now, and my peace and safety have made it impossible for me to stay. The bruises and scars go beyond the physical, and for my own sake, I have to choose me,” Amber Ray wrote in part.

“Knowing too well about how society keeps its mouth shut on domestic violence, I won’t use my platform to sing the same song over and over again. I choose to lead with compassion, because in the end, it hurts. It hurts to have your trust shattered in ways you cannot express in words. But it hurts even more being a silent observer in your own life……” she added.

Following her announcement, Obinna took to social media to celebrate seeing an opening to win Amber Ray’s heart.

However, speaking during a recent interview, Amber Ray stated that Obinna stood no chance of dating her.

“Haiwezi. Haiwezi kwanza vile naskia baby mama wake ni stressful sana, staki stress za baby mama. Haiwezi but namwishia all the best he is a good guy I have met him severally we have done job mingi pamoja, he is a good guy yeah,” Amber Ray said.