Akothee and her mzungu fiancé Omondi lost their unborn baby through a miscarriage on 17th December 2022.
The two lovers are once again trying to have a baby. But this time round as a precaution, Omondi will be taking Akothee to Switzerland and switch off all her phones until she safely delivers their baby.
“Well just to encourage you, we are trying again. This time round Omosh has said he will switch off all my phones and take me to Switzerland until we give birth 🥺😳😳😳😳 Swali niiiii, nitabeba panga wapi huko? And anytime he sees me in the gym flaunting my body he tells me it won’t be long 🤣🤣🤣🤣,” Akothee wrote in part in a post on Facebook.
Akothee also talked about the pain and trauma he endured when she lost her unborn baby in December last year.
Below is her full post:
WHEN YOU FALL DO YOU STAY THERE OR YOU STAND UP ?
I am really scared of getting pregnant again , before I got pregnant I shared alot with my close people, most of them were for the opinion I should not do it ,and that pregnancy after 40 is completely different it comes with alot of challenges. I dint know what they ment until I tried it myself ,
When we got lucky ,I shared the news with afew ,the message they sent to me strongly was ( DONT SHARE YOUR PREGNANCY ON SOCIAL MEDIA, PEOPLE ARE EVIL ) aiii ,I was wondering, kwani hata mimba ni kitu ya kufichia watu ,is it an investment? anyway I adhered to it .but still lost it .
The pain I went through the first week of miscarriage, I felt like I have lost a baby I ever met. The emotional trauma was out of this world ,I would breakdown more than 10 times a day. My children arrived in Nairobi from France I had to detain them in Nairobi for 5 days for me to collect myself. I couldn’t imagine them see me cry ,I had no energy nor nothing to laugh or joke about . I was broken totally 💔, I wonder why yet this was just a miscarriage 🙏🤲, well we had bonded with the fetus so much and the only song Omosh sang for me was
“Honey we are preeeeegnant “
We woke up at 3.00 am to go eat pineapples, Omosh was so happy and he felt like we were both carrying the baby.he slept with his hands on my tummy all night ,always kissing and reminding the baby ,hey daddy is here 💋
Tuli nicknamed the baby OMOLO AGAR
My moods were all over the place
Playing block and unblock mode , Tuli would ask me
Koro Omolo Agar OK dwar wach kawuono .
Well I had too much pressure and stress from outside. The doctor had mentioned that the level of stress at this age could expel the baby ,it was when I was just trying to sort out issues that were revolving around externally, I really wanted a peaceful life ,only to realise
Life is a collection of challenges and peace must only be made from inside and you can’t force people who don’t want peace to choose peace.
When I left the hospital, I hated everyone and everybody, I felt like I could have done much better . I blocked my gates and no one was allowed in .
I look strong because I am a strong personality naturally , I know how to collect myself quickly,
I could see people asking why I am up and down yet I just had a miscarriage, hey ,I give birth today and tomorrow I am all out ,for me pregnancy is not a disease, we were at our 9th week , just about to pass the first trimester, I had such a big belly which was also worrying us,I remember asking the doctor why ,yet we are only 9 weeks ?
Well just to encourage you .We are trying again ,this time round
Omosh has said he will switch off all my phones and take me to swizerland until we give birth 🥺😳😳😳😳
Swali niiiii
Nitabeba panga wapi huko ? and anytime he sees me in the gym flaunting my body ,he tells me
It won’t be long 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Just to let you know ,
I love you good morning
My body is coming back
