Yummy Mummy has come forward to address the one thing a lot of people were keen on.
There have been rumors on the internet about the outspoken content creator Yummy Mummy separating from her husband and that their marriage was on the rocks.
Proving that the rumors were further from the truth, Yummy Mummy took to social media a few hours ago to shine on the haters by showing off her husband of four years proving that they’re more than okay.
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In the same breath, the body-positive social media influencer went ahead to share the eleven reasons she’s learned in her four-year marriage to the man of her dreams.
Yummy Mummy has learned a lot of things in her marriage among them is giving 100% in marriage, the importance of sex, the only people who matter in the marriage are only two people (you and your partner), and Learning how to fight and resolve conflict.
This is what Yummy Mummy real name Joan Obwaka:
“Some lessons I’ve learned in my 4 years of marriage. (Note: I’m no expert. These are based off of my own experience only)
- The only people who know what is really going on in a marriage are the two people in it. And thankfully, they are the only ones that matter.
- For a marriage to work you can’t both give 50/50. You both have to give 100%.
- Learning how to fight and resolve conflict is the greatest tool you can learn in marriage and relationships. Going from me versus him to us versus the issue is a game changer.
- You won’t love your partner every day. There are days when you will feel that they are simply unlovable. On those days, commitment is what keeps you together.
- Children do not heal a broken marriage. If things are good, a baby will make them better. If things are bad, a baby can single-handedly destroy them altogether. Don’t have a child to distract you from what is going wrong. Fix it first.
- Marriage is amazing. When people post ‘marriage is bad’, ‘marriage is hard’, ‘marriage is a scam’, what they really mean to say is that THEIR marriage is bad. That THEIR marriage is hard. That THEIR marriage is a scam. 🤷🏽♀️
- Marriage brings out the best in you and the worst in you at the same time. It forces you to confront aspects about yourself that you have never had the courage to. It makes you vulnerable and so strong at the same time.
- Teamwork really does make the dream work.
- Always always always answer the phone when your husband or wife is calling. 😂
- Realize that a strong marriage doesn’t always have two strong people at the same time. It’s usually a husband and wife taking turns being strong for each other in the moments when the other feels weak.
- (Bonus) SEX. Prioritize it. It takes more than sex to build a strong marriage. But it’s nearly impossible to build a strong marriage without it.
Ni hayo tu kwa sasa.”
