The Betty Kyalo Okari, Dennis Okari love tale is taking new twists each day and as we wait to finally get to know where their marriage stands, after reports alleged that things were going south, what could have gone wrong or what eating up marriages today.
Well, they say dating celebs can be a painful affair that most of the times ends up with divorce, we know many that have ended like that.
That begs the question, what could be the rifting factor in a marriage such as this of Betty Kyalo and Dennis Okari?
Are these issues workable between a couple and what is the best way forward to solving them when they unfortunately and unprecedentedly come up?
Should Betty Kyalo issue an official statement in regard to this wide-spreading grapevine, or should it be a concern of the man, Dennis Okari to speak up? or should we assume their silence to be in the affirmative that, finally its over?
Anyway, why would a love so sweet so perfect result to such shambles?Maybe, this can help us know something about TV queens and why it is always hard to tame them.
1. Schedules
TV girls tend to have very tight schedules that need them to be in the office as late as 11pm or past midnight working on a story,editing some lengthy feature,leaving the office late after reading the 9pm news basically getting entangled in many other activities that are strenuous and demanding. She has to beat deadlines,finish a story,compile a feature and generally execute her television duties without regard to the time or day. And therefore,having a wife (or girlfriend) who spends all her time at the office,coming home late and not even ever having time off to hang out with you,bond and probably go for a weekend getaway can be taxing and very unhealthy for a relationship to grow and a marriage to flourish, and vice-versa.
2. Philandering
It has been proven and reported that many TV girls (Like another one I won’t mention here) are simple,basic ratchet hoes who will sleep with the next guy at the slightest invitation. Some TV girls are known to go for mega rich businessmen and politicians while some others (and I know I certain ka-story) even sleep and prostitute themselves with anyone nor matter their social rank or income. I know a very gorgeous TV girl who had a very steamy weekend with a camera man she barely even knew on one media house trip to Eldoret. These girls can be very promiscuous,treacherous and wily. And also very huge consumers of the D.Could this be the case between Betty Kyalo,Dennis Okari?
3. Ego
Most of these TV girls have had their egos bloated by the glowing press coverage and blog mentions they receive on the daily and then end up imagining they are Madonna or Barbara Streisand. They join the media house all humble and sweet… And then they quickly graduate to the status of ‘Celebrity’ and then,all of a sudden, they develop an ego,stop talking to regular media guys at the hallway,start feeling all sweet and important and then end up transporting that stupid ego and conceitedness into the relationship thus damaging it irreparably. They become hard to pin down,hard to reach compromises with and basic hard headed divas who will not be boxed into a challenging relationship opting to leave and save themselves the drama. Betty Kyalo looks like this sweet girl, who is harmless,Dennis its hard to tell.
4. Salary
It’s public knowledge that some TV girls earn an upwards of Ksh. 500,000 per month just for sitting pretty,dressing provocatively and mumbling a local news roundup at 9pm. Such a salary can fool and blind many a woman into believing that she’s got it all,she has her act together, she’s settled and financially safe and therefore,she doesn’t exactly need a man. She thinks, ‘I ain’t sitting here,with all this money,trying to deal with some knavish bastard,I’ve got money,not time. He’s gotta go…’ and with that,she lets go of the union. And moves on very swiftly,to read more news,dress even less and earn even more. Money money money. Obviously Betty Kyalo earns more than Dennis Okari and maybe, it makes him feel less but i doubt she rubs it off him.
5. Boredom
Marriage can be boring. Stiff boring. Dating can wear you off too and leave you all lethargic and dry. Given the life she lives,the TV girl isn’t going to be sitting her pretty TV ass all day putting up with all the boredom surrounding her and oozing from her man. Mostly,they marry and date for publicity and for media coverage. And when the attention starts waning,when their love affair stops attracting any more news and making the headlines,she’s bored. She’s over it. She’s had a good time and is ready to move on swiftly. And she does it very fast.Or are they just tired?
People get bored of even the most beautiful people in the world, these things happen..or maybe this post by Dennis Okari 4 weeks ago on Instagram could be a pointer..JEALOUSY
