I am 29 years old. I have a master’s degree, a good job and I’m planning to enroll for my PhD by next year. I also have a thriving catering business on the side and I’ve taken out a mortgage.
My boyfriend of three years is 34 but he only has an undergraduate degree. He has a job in IT, but he has been in the same position forever. When I ask him about his plans for the future, he says that he is comfortable where he is and he’ll cross that bridge when he gets there.
I love him. He is smart, gentle, funny and treats me well. We’ve talked marriage. I often interact with high-flying men who would easily date me and who match my ambition.
My boyfriend supports my goals, but my worry is whether we will have problems in future given our differing levels of ambition. What do you think? Should I look for a man who is a go-getter like me?
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